add several build flags to avoid unnecessary warnings

[anonrig]

Whenever I build Node.js on my macOS machine, I always see this unnecessary warnings. Since they're dependencies, we can just ignore warnings.

cc @nodejs/build

[nodejs-github-bot]

Review requested:

• @nodejs/gyp
• @nodejs/security-wg
• @nodejs/v8-update

[codecov]

Codecov Report

✅ All modified and coverable lines are covered by tests.
✅ Project coverage is 89.70%. Comparing base (a9ac9b1) to head (56b1444).
⚠️ Report is 2 commits behind head on main.

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- Coverage   89.70%   89.70%   -0.01%     
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  Files         695      695              
  Lines      214213   214213              
  Branches    41021    41027       +6     
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- Hits       192167   192155      -12     
+ Misses      14113    14112       -1     
- Partials     7933     7946      +13     

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