* fixed: shared libraries (dylibs) were not copied into binary

[dkimitsa]

user provided shared libraries were used during linkage but were not copied.

    <libs>
        <lib>libs/libsqlitejdbc.dylib</lib>
    </libs>

as result application failed at runtime.

also logic added to allow not link the library and load it dynamically at runtime, force attribute is used similar to static libs:

    <libs>
        <lib force="false">libs/libsqlitejdbc.dylib</lib>
    </libs>