[real-value/control-dashboard] add pilot proof command

[FlowmemoryAI]

Closes #137.

What changed

• Adds the dedicated root proof command npm run flowchain:real-value-pilot:control-dashboard.
• Adds control-plane real-value pilot lifecycle methods and HTTP endpoints for status, observations, credits, withdrawal intents, release evidence, caps, pause, retry, and emergency state.
• Adds dashboard data/view rendering for the capped owner pilot, including live/degraded/error state and exact next operator command.
• Adds schema/docs/run artifacts for the control-plane/dashboard proof row.
• Updates the HQ pilot matrix rows this branch satisfies as branch-local until merge.

Why it changed

The merged HQ gate now fails until every subsystem exposes a dedicated proof command on main. This PR supplies the control-plane/dashboard proof command and evidence for the control-dashboard:api-and-owner-views row while keeping public-readiness claims out of scope.

Checks run

• npm run flowchain:real-value-pilot:control-dashboard
• npm test --prefix services/control-plane
• npm run control-plane:smoke
• npm test --prefix apps/dashboard
• npm run build --prefix apps/dashboard
• node infra/scripts/check-unsafe-claims.mjs
• git diff --check
• Local dev server shell check: http://127.0.0.1:5177/ returned 200 with the Vite root. The in-app Browser JavaScript control tool was not exposed through tool discovery, so no screenshot was captured.

Current blockers

The owner pilot remains no-go until the other dedicated root proof commands land:

• flowchain:real-value-pilot:contracts
• flowchain:real-value-pilot:bridge
• flowchain:real-value-pilot:runtime
• flowchain:real-value-pilot:wallet
• flowchain:real-value-pilot:ops

This PR does not claim public launch, open-validator readiness, tokenomics, broad bridge readiness, or production custody.