sqlite: add trace sql hook #5010

Job	Run time
Build slim tarball	1m 54s
x86_64-linux: with shared libraries	26m 37s
x86_64-darwin: with shared libraries	42m 18s
aarch64-darwin: with shared libraries	26m 44s
aarch64-linux: with shared libraries	21m 27s
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