sqlite: add trace sql hook #4985

Job	Run time
Build slim tarball	2m 0s
aarch64-darwin: with shared libraries	19m 45s
x86_64-darwin: with shared libraries	41m 25s
aarch64-linux: with shared libraries	21m 33s
x86_64-linux: with shared libraries	26m 10s
	1h 50m 53s

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