build: do not depend on V8 deps on `--without-bundled-v8` builds #3822

Job	Run time
Build slim tarball	1m 58s
x86_64-darwin: with shared libraries	25m 59s
aarch64-linux: with shared libraries	17m 23s
aarch64-darwin: with shared libraries	18m 9s
x86_64-linux: with shared libraries	20m 21s
	1h 23m 50s

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