Replace fmha with a new kernel

[JohnNikolay84]

Motivation

New kernel for Tencent for gfx942 fmha fp8

Technical Details

Rework mi350 kernel to support mfma and LDS size applicable for mi300

Test Plan

HY3 model shapes and local unit tests for mi300

Test Result

Submission Checklist

• Look over the contributing guidelines at https://github.com/ROCm/ROCm/blob/develop/CONTRIBUTING.md#pull-requests.

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🏷️ CI Guide

Runs automatically on every PR:

• ✅ Pre-checks (submodule verification, code formatting)
• ✅ Aiter op tests (gfx942 + gfx950)
• ✅ Triton tests on MI35X (only when aiter/ops/triton/** or related paths are changed)

Extended tests (opt-in via labels):

Label	Tests
ci:triton-300x	Run an additional Triton test job on MI300X in PRs; main branch always runs both MI35X and MI300X
ci:sglang	SGLang integration tests: DeepSeek-R1-MXFP4 accuracy, Qwen 3.5 accuracy
ci:atom	ATOM benchmark: DeepSeek-R1-0528, GPT-OSS-120B
ci:atom_full	ATOM accuracy suite for PR and main models from ATOM models_accuracy.json
ci:vllm	vLLM benchmark: GPT-OSS-120B, DeepSeek-R1-0528, Kimi-K2.5
ci:all	All standard extended tests (excludes ci:atom_full)

Only add ci:atom_full for FlyDSL or Triton upgrades.
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